Living with judgemental people

One thing that sort of annoys me, is that I actually live with judgemental people. The people who I spent my whole life growing up with. My mom and dad sides are all judgemental, my siblings and obviously, my parents. I don't want that trait to sync in my system because it won't do any good anyway. They are nice people, yes. But the way how they judge so easily, I don't know. This is not about ruining names and shit, this is a post of how I cope with their "habit". I judge sometimes but I immediately take the thought back and don't mind their business. That's called "avoiding".. see what I did there? Anyway, whenever I hear them judging about a certain issue, I ignore it. Not being an open-minded, at all. Why would I join in their mini talk show and listen to words/phrases that is just based from the first thought that popped in their mind and poof, goes into their mouth? I'll probably just leave the damn room. It is really hard to deal with these people. Sometimes they don't even notice that they are judgmental and look at it as a normal attitude. Well fuck you then. How can you say that a woman is a slut when she got pregnant? How can you say that a man is lazy when he is working as a janitor? Know the freakin' story first because it is difficult to hear opinions about you when you know it isn't true. We can't please everybody but damn, judging needs to take control. I'm really hoping that one day, these negative thoughts just vanish forever.